I have read the manual/install guide repeatedly but I suppose I needed to hear it from someone

What I would like is :
Button A- Rear Lights Only
Button B- Front Lights Only
Button C - Front and Rear Lights...
I would like to select what lights to be on.
Apparently it looks like the unit cannot do this...since the outlets matched to the switches will be on.... http://whelen.com/install/140/14057.pdf
A-Outlet 1 (GOOD !)
B-Outlets 1 & 2 (NO ! Just want Outlet 2)
C-Outlets 1, 2 & 3* (GOOD !!)
1- H/F (Outlet 9)
2- MAN
3- Air Horn
4- Siren
5- Radio
6- Alley (Outlets 4 & 5)
7- Outlet 6
8-Outlet 7
9- Outlet 8
Ugh ! Did i miss the boat?
IDeas?
The manual says default controls.. is there a way to reprogram the hand held control head?
Thank you in advance.
John